#20 | Paul Carrol

Here's a conversation with Paul Carrol of self protection Ireland

 

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0:00 Intro

2:00 First entry into material arts

2:50 Not listening to your Intuition

4:50 Self-protection Ireland

8:00 Violence in the real world

11:00 Defense vs protection

12:10 The seeds of violence & trauma

14:00 Everybody can hit pads

16:20 Problems with cert collectors

19:20 A good guy having a bad day

21:00 The ripples of violence

22:10 Teenagers & fighting other towns

24:30 The interview process for violence

26:20 The myth of stranger danger

29:10 Red flags & domestic violence

33:20 Domestic rape

36:00 Healthy relationships

38:00 Generational trauma & choosing your reaction

41:30 Being capable of doing terrible things

46:00 The path out of domestic violence

49:00 The self-defense industry

53:40 Teaching men not to be assholes

55:20 Conflict in pubs

57:00 When your friend is the arsehole

1:02:30 Attack with empathy

1:05:30 Just be nice

1:07:30 Road rage

1:10:20 Teaching self-protection

1:13:50 Dealing with child predators

1:21:40 Creating trust & raising a child

1:24:20 Managing ego and aggression

1:26:00 Mothers & daughters

1:29:00 Looking at the bigger picture

1:30:00 The shredder technique

1:31:00 Giving women space

1:32:00 Give the attacker what they don't want

1:35:30 Problems in the industry

1:36:30 Corruption and manipulation